You can be strong, you can be healthy, and you can perform better. Is it easy? Hell no, but it is worth every second of the struggle to get there and maintain it.  When we look better, when we feel better, we can move better, we can lead our kids better, we will be better spouses and we can give more love.
You can focus on the all the excuses or you can focus on all the great reasons why and how it can be done.  There are many who do get it done.  
It is not easy, it is doable!
Let's get healthy together!